TRUE LOVE IS THE GHOST

 

True Love Is The Ghost, Which Everyone Talks About And Few Have Seen.

So as the above quote says, it is true that often people talk about true love but very few experience it. But as I have observed, most people get into a relationship at a very young age seeing everyone around them getting into a relationship and make promises that they do not know if they are ready to keep up. At that age, none of them will be serious about their relationship, or at least the majority of them. But some couples are authentic from the beginning and keep up their promises. Because of this, they face heartbreak, be depressed and get addicted to things that will help them forget the pain they experience. At a very young age, they get negative feelings and impressions of love. And they start to lose interest in everything. And they feel it is difficult for them to build that trust in love and get scared to get into a relationship ever again. 

Love comes to you when you aren't ready for it and leaves when you need it the most. This is a quote that my best friend keeps repeating, and I feel it's true. But if the love is true and accurate, it will stay with you FOREVER, I added.         

 

                                   But this is not the end.

 

So, nothing is permanent in life, not even the bad times and the bad phases. What is and will be constant is the true love you will have for each other, which keeps growing every moment you spend time with each other.

 

 Everything is predestined. Some people wait for the right time and proper person to fall in love. First love is very pure and true if both people are matured enough to understand, handle, care and support each other. First, love is an emotion that I cannot put in words. A relationship is not about changing the way we want the other person to be, but accepting the way and loving that person as they are. For me, love was something out of the window, and I felt it is never going to be my cup of tea, but there comes a phase and that one person in life who changes our perspectives on things in and around us. I feel God takes away something from us with a plan to give us back something better in return. So, the same happened with me as well. So, I never knew how love would feel like or how putting someone else before you as your top priority felt like. I have seen my grandparents and my parents' love as theirs is a love marriage.

I am a very pampered child, and I wanted my man also to treat me the same. For me, love was something where a person will understand, accept, guide, and support each other in every step of our life. I wanted MY MAN to be protective, caring, understanding, who can handle me and my crazy mood swings!!! But I never expected to be getting all of these qualities in one person as a package. But little did I know that God had this precious gem that was meant for me. I am lucky and blessed to have gotten the best because he understands me so well that he gets to know things I do not say and when we are far from each other. I feel I have got everything I ever wished for or even more than what I wished. No doubt he treats me like a Princess!

 

 

There will be many ups and downs and many challenges that we will have to face in this path, but with the right person, nothing is complicated. Complication and struggle feel worth it when you know that at the end of all these, there is one person who is waiting to spend the rest of his life with you! Until and unless you have the person you love with you, everything is possible to overcome.

 

A relationship does not last long because of good

 times but because of the bad times treated with care. 

 

The relationship is all about trust. And relationships work when both trust each other. It is like a mixture like talkative me, calm he. I am childish, and he's matured (vice versa), sometimes careless me, responsible he. It is very true opposites attract. 

A relationship where each of us understands our flaws and tries to boost confidence in each helps a relationship to be successful.

In the era of social media posts, I was looking for an old school love with poems and quotes like a typical 90's love story, and finally, I found my old school love in the year 2020.

So, all that I have understood about love is because of this one person in my life, to whom I'll always be grateful. XD:) 

LOVE, LO VE!!!!!!!

WE WILL FACE IT!!!!!!

             LILLY🌷